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New Years Hopes, Challenges & Choices 2017

What HOPES, CHANGES and CHOICES are you going to make this year?

It is another New Year and it is customary to make resolutions and commitments and look back on the past year.
We usually ask ourselves what we want to CHANGE this year and how are we going to get there. Did you manage to achieve what you set out to do in 2016? What did you celebrate and what can you improve upon this year?

I start thinking of what I want more of in my life. What possibilities can I envision?
What do I need to change in myself, my home or in my relationships. What do I want to learn, what do I want to do and what options & choices do I have. What are you hoping for in 2017?

I am feeling inspired by possibilities and thought you might want to join me in MAKING CHANGES.
Of course the BIG questions are:
WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE OF IN YOUR LIFE? WHAT DO YOU NEED GOING FORWARD TO BE HAPPY, HAVE BETTER RELATIONSHIPS or BE MORE SUCCESSFUL AT WORK?

What is the “IT” you are wanting, dreaming or needing more of……..
and
If you had “IT” How would your life be different? and
What is stopping you from having “IT”
This is where I can help you:

define what CHANGES you want to implement
clarify what BLOCKS you need to get past
create a MAP to achieve your goal
support you in the PROCESS 

What needs a TRANSFORMATION in your life?
Your personal or professional LIFE, your HOME or your RELATIONSHIPS?

LIFE, LOVE, LIFESTYLE 
Are you living “on purpose”
Do you feel inspired everyday?
What challenges are you facing?
Do you feel what you do is meaningful?
Are your relationships full of love or full of conflict?
Do you feel fulfilled? Are you happy?
What choices do you have?
Do you feel afraid?
Do you feel in sync with who you are at your core?
I can help you discover what you want more of in your life, support you to create a life that will feel more meaningful, full of love, less stressful, healthier, happier and more successful.

I will help you clarify your goals, define how to get there with a step by step plan and coach and support you to achieve it. I will help you solve challenges, turn conflicts into opportunities and highlight new perspectives and possibilities.

DON’T MISS OUT ON THIS GREAT OPPORTUNITY TO DISCOVER WHAT CHANGES YOU NEED TO MAKE, TO HAVE MORE OF WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE
Let me know when you want to start your new life and book your Discovery Coaching Session
BOOK HERE
Mheyah

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I’m surprised by……..


As a Relationship Counsellor I often ruminate on what makes some relationships successful and what makes others more challenging, full of conflict, misunderstandings, hurt and disharmony.

My surprise is that people wait to the last minute to try to revive their relationships when they are struggling. I feel sad when I see this happening all the time. It appears for the majority that only when all else has failed and circumstances are dire indeed before people seem willing to do anything proactive. What sometimes scares me is people seem resigned to the 59% failed first marriage statistic and the 69% second marriage statistic. Are you or someone you know one of those people? It is scientifically proven that relationship tools and skills are foundational for a successful and happy life.

If you or someone you know is struggling with relationships, stressed and not managing conflict and differences, life will be challenging in all areas of life.
I read a fantastic article called The Science of Regret. Lucky for us humans we learn by regret and failure and can be very resilient in the face of adversity.

We all seek loving, harmonious and happy relationships. It is human nature to want to connect with others, whether it’s our family, friends, coworkers, or our romantic relationships, we all need connection, love, respect, admiration, loyalty, and some level of nurturing.

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Achieving this quality of connection can be more difficult than we think oftentimes. Perhaps you find relationships challenging or have found yourself in several unhealthy relationships or are hesitant to start a new one based on your past experiences or the new one you are in is starting to struggle. Maybe you’re finding it difficult to make the necessary professional connections needed to further advance your career.

“Studies show that 85% of your happiness and success can be directly attributed to your communication skills”
Whatever your challenges, fears, pain and frustrations, Connection Point can give you the communication skills and tools you need to ensure all of your relationships are healthy, happy, harmonious and full of mutual respect.

I have solutions for you.  I have created two easy to use cost effective courses that will help anyone struggling in their lives with relationship conflict, stress and challenges, personally or professionally or you can call me for some Connection Coaching @ +1-778-952-4797 and I love that Google Hangouts and FaceTime make it so easy to connect anywhere in the world. We are so lucky to be able to chat anywhere-anytime.

My goal is to help you minimize conflict and stress and maximize love and success.

My 2 in-depth courses highlight the 5 important principles needed to create rich and successful personal and business relationships, Successful Communication Made Simple and the 5 Simple Principles to Create Successful Relationships.
These courses will lead you on a path to:

  • Loving & harmonious relationships
  • Professional success
  • Personal happiness and contentment
  • Strengthened confidence in yourself
  • Understanding, love, and appreciation
  • Respect, passion, and deep friendship with your chosen partner

If you find yourself nodding and thinking “This is what I’ve been missing!” then CLICK HERE to learn more about our program and how you can get started building healthy relationships today!

This is what you have been looking for so you can have harmonious and happy relationships, create a more successful career and have the life you want.

Need relationship help immediately-Call me +1-778-952-4797

Communication is the single most important part of creating a healthy relationship. A relationship without communication is like a beautiful flower without water and sunlight, it will quickly wither and die. I don’t care if you think what you have to say is hurtful or you are afraid of expressing yourself, speak your Truth. Be kind, but speak up and be honest. It’s easy to communicate when it’s good news and happy times, but it takes a truly authentic and courageous person to communicate openly and honestly when darkness falls on a relationship.”– Jackson Kiddard, author & polymath.

Love Mheyah
I look forward to connecting with you at:
www.connectionpointcentre.com
email at mheyah@connectionpointcentre.com
cell: +1-778-952-4797
and on Skype, FaceTime, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Linkedin, Google Hangouts

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MONDAY MOMENT-QUICK TIP

 

Hi everyone,

I hope you all had a great weekend. I want to connect with you and am hoping to inform, inspire and empower you to “change your life one conversation at a time”

I have compiled a series of quick 1 minute tips for you that I hope you will find useful and will share with others who may find value in learning some quick fixes to change their life for the better. My goal is to help you go from “Surviving to Thriving”

What goals or changes do you need to make going forward to have more success, love & happiness in your life? What isn’t working?

85% of our success and happiness in life can be directly attributed to our communication skills, so where do you need to up your game for more success personally & professionally.

Do you experience conflict?
Are you stressed?
Are you living the BIG life you are meant to live?
Do you feel happy?
Do you have wonderful relationships that are connected and fulfilling?
Can you tell people what you value and need?
Do you feel heard and appreciated?

Here is your first 1 minute video to get you started from SURVIVING to THRIVING

If you like these tips and want to learn more about how to connect with others and THRIVE not just SURVIVE then you can learn more with my longer more in depth course at SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION MADE SIMPLE where I delve into what principles and structure make a conversation more successful and create more connection, rather than more conflict and stress. Personally or professionally, the principles are the same. I hope if you are looking for some tools to improve your life and relationships you will check out the course or get in touch to discuss Communication Coaching with me and how coaching can change your life and improve all your relationships.
My goal is to “change the world one conversation at a time” and create a Relationship Revolution.
Let’s collaborate on how I can help you “THRIVE not just SURVIVE”
Love Mheyah Connection Expert
Relationship Counsellor
Communication Specialist Coach

 

 

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WOW-What a great review

 

I was so excited to read this great review on my course on DAILY OM. I feel very appreciated as my hope as always been to help others avoid the same challenges in relationships that I have experienced. It has taken a lifetime of learning to integrate the key elements that make up great relationship tools and I want to share them with you all.
Thank you Gabriel Dee for taking the time to review the course. This course is a snapshot of how to manage conflict and differences and will benefit anyone with relationship & communication challenges. See the review HERE 
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How to get from SURVIVING to THRIVING

My longer more in depth course at SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION MADE SIMPLE 
is where I delve into what principles and structure make a conversation more successful and create more connection, rather than more conflict and stress. Personally or professionally, the principles are the same. I hope if you are looking for some tools to improve your life and relationships you will check out both courses or get in touch to discuss Communication Coaching with me and how coaching can change your life and improve all your relationships.
My goal is to “change the world one conversation at a time”  and create a Relationship Revolution.
Let’s collaborate on how I can help you THRIVE not just SURVIVE
Love Mheyah 
Relationship Counsellor
Communication Coach

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How to take your Relationships to New Heights


How to take your Relationships to New Heights
from the desk of Mheyah Bailey

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Have you noticed how relationships change over time? We all love the romance phase because it feels so wonderful to find someone you feel really connected to, someone who gets you and who is there for you. We even go through the romance phase in a new job or any new experience.

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Falling in love is the most compelling and intoxicating experience but what is it that makes it change? We seek it and then are so disappointed when our relationships lose that sheen of romance and connection, passion and intimacy.

Then we look around and wonder where it went. The best way to get what you want in your relationships is to know where you want to end up, know what you need and want and be able to communicate to your partner. Communication is the key to keeping the love and passion alive.

What most of us need is a clear path to follow. It is not always easy to know how to make your relationships better, conflict free and full of loving connection. It is easy to lose your way with all the information out there about how to be successful in love and life.

I have spent the last several years creating a communication system that has the essential keys to lasting quality relationships personally and professionally.

I have created a Simple 5 Step System that includes the 5 main principles needed to have quality relationships and the 5 Steps for Successful Conversations.
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This 5 Step System will let you take all your relationships to new heights, full of appreciation, understanding, connection with no stress and conflict.Please allow me to introduce you to:
SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION MADE SIMPLE
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85% of your happiness and success in life can be determined by your communication skills.

This 7 module course highlights the 5 important principles needed to create successful relationships personally and professionally. It is a simple, easy to use, but rich in-depth course that teaches the important qualities you need to create more connection with those you love, help you manage conflict and differences and integrates them with the 5 simple Step by Step System for win-win conversations so you can get on the path to more Love, Happiness and Success.

With This Course You Will Gain:

More loving & harmonious relationships

Become more successful professionally

You will feel happier & more content

Have more confidence in your abilities

Enjoy more understanding, love & appreciation

Create a respectful passionate connection & deep friendship with your partner

Have less stress and conflict personally and professionally

In addition you will receive group coaching calls and lots of bonus resources to get you on the path to more happiness, love and success.

This is an exciting opportunity for you to take your life, relationships and professional success to a whole new level

CLICK HERE TO LEARN HOW YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE TODAY

I will be sending more information your way so keep a look out for new tips on how to take your relationships to whole new heights and success.
Love Mheyah 

If you want help with your relationships or communication coaching please connect with me and BOOK YOUR SESSION BELOW

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7 Questions to Ask Yourself When You Can’t Get Turned on Anymore


The 7 steps to flip your “turn on switch”

We all at times can wonder why we don’t have that incredible compelling desire for our partners and you start asking yourself the big questions, Why oh Why don’t they turn me on anymore? Where did our love go?

My mantra, and I am sure you may have heard me say it over and over, because it is true, “the truth is simple’ and is the same in this case.

Unless you have some hormone imbalance or another medical condition (like depression) making you not feel sexy, and you can’t find that magic sexy sweet spot,  the cause can only be one thing, a lack of mental and emotional connection.
Not only a lack of connection with each other but also with yourself. The brain is our largest sex organ and if you are not feeling sexy and connected it can only mean that you are not connecting emotionally and mentally.

Sex is the highest level of communication and if you are not communicating in all the ways that matter, sex is just not going to happen the way it used to.

So understanding the problem leads us to the solution.

If you want to feel that sexy turned on feeling again then you have to create and find the mental emotional connection.
couple connectionNow this is where my job starts. I help people create connection, more love, happiness, intimacy and passion, which leads me to one of the biggest lessons in relationships: realizing that each and everyone of us is 100% responsible for ourselves and our own happiness in the relationship.

What you can do is try to understand all the events and triggers that you may not even be aware of, that have shut OFF your “turn on switch” You also may be aware of some concerns in your relationship but you haven’t dealt with them yet. What you may not realize is that by avoiding any issues you have effectively turned OFF your “turn on switch.

There are many questions you need to honestly ask yourself and do your best to discover what is true for you, what is at the heart of the matter. When we are even the slightest bit upset with your partners, maybe aren’t even aware of feeling resentful, or we haven’t set good boundaries, aren’t aware of our own needs in the relationship, have maybe compromised on important issues where we shouldn’t have, we shut down and become disconnected. Sex is only a symptom of deeper issues that need to be resolved.

Einstien said it best when he said “a problem needs to be resolved 6 layers below where it presents itself”

So if not feeling turned on is where the issue presents itself then I can guarantee the problem is definitely deeper than that. When we are not aware of underlying upset and problems our love and “turn on switch” becomes turned OFF and we become unable to feel that passion and love we once had for our partners. It isn’t lost, it is just hidden.

What can help the situation is to ask yourself some deep and meaningful questions and answer yourself truthfully with radical honesty.

  1. Am I upset or angry with my partner in any way. Even in small ways, are you feeling upset? Is there an imbalance of responsibilities or roles? What could you be feeling hurt about? Anger is a secondary emotion that covers up more vulnerable feelings like fear, sadness, hurt to name a few.  So get real with yourself and ask yourself what are you feeling? Our feelings are our barometers that guide us to understand ourselves better.
  2. Do I feel resentful in anyway. This is a biggy. When we feel resentful and maybe not even acknowledging our resentment we automatically withdraw emotionally and sex is best when we are emotionally connected.  What could you be resenting? Your partner not helping out, not home much, not being there for you?
  3. Do I feel safe and secure in my relationship? The attachment you feel to your partner is as important as the safety and security a child needs with it’s primary caregiver so if you are feeling insecure or unsafe in any way your love switch will definitely diminish.  When I say safe and secure I am meaning, do you feel physically and emotionally safe and secure, free from fear and fully trusting your partner. Are you on the same team?
  4. What is your love language? Do you feel loved? We all have a combination of love languages and is how we feel loved. What is yours and are you getting enough of your main love language to feel special, important and loved?They are: Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Affection, Acts of Service. If you can identify what makes you feel loved out of these 5, ask yourself if you are getting enough of them?
  5. Are you spending enough fun time together outside of the bedroom? FUN. Remember fun. What do you enjoy doing together? What brought you together in the first place? Whatever it is, do more of it.
  6. Are you looking after yourself? Are you making time for your own creativity, friends, exercise and living your life with purpose. We all need to feel we are living with a purpose and expressing our authentic selves. If we don’t we can project our unfulfilled selves onto our partners expecting, even unconsciously, expecting them to fulfill us and give us purpose in the world and that is not how the best relationships work. The best relationships are when two people bring their whole authentic, creative selves into the relationship and share their purpose with each other and the rest of the world.
  7. Communication. How skilled are you at communication? Are you able to express, what you feel, need and want? Do you know how to express yourself to create more connection and love, and less stress and conflict?

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Sex is the highest form of communication so if your communications skills are lacking then so will your ability to create healthy happy relationships in all areas of your life.

Studies have proven that “85% of your happiness and success in life can be directly attributed to your communication skills” So suffice to say that communication and connection is the answer to switching ON your “turn on switch”

If you want help with your relationships or communication coaching please connect with me and BOOK YOUR SESSION BELOW

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Looking for a way to ensure Healthy, Fulfilling & Passionate Relationships

 

We all seek loving relationships. It is human nature to want to connect with loved ones. Whether it’s from our family, friends, coworkers, or our romantic relationships, we all expect love, respect, admiration, loyalty, and some level of nurturing.

But achieving that can be more difficult than you think sometimes.
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Perhaps you’ve found yourself in several unhealthy relationships and are hesitant to start a new one based on your past experiences or the new one you are in is starting to struggle too. Or maybe you’ve watched too many movies and read too many books and are scared of the hurt that can come from a failed relationship attempt. Or maybe you’re finding it difficult to make the necessary professional connections needed to further advance your career. 

Regardless of your past fears,  Connection Point can give you the communication skills you need to ensure all of your relationships are healthy, happy and full of mutual respect.

We offer 2 in depth courses that highlight the 5 important principles needed to create rich and successful personal and business relationships, Successful Communication Made Simple and the 5 Simple Principles to Create Successful Relationships.
These courses will lead you on a path to:

  • Loving & harmonious relationships
  • Professional success
  • Personal happiness and contentment
  • Strengthened confidence in yourself
  • Understanding, love, and appreciation
  • Respect, passion, and deep friendship with your chosen partner

We all want to be loved, but sometimes we need a little help learning how to go about achieving that level of affection out of relationships in our life.

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If you find yourself nodding and thinking “This is what I’ve been missing!” then CLICK HERE to learn more about our program and how you can get started building healthy relationships today!

Need relationship help-you can book me directly

Communication is the single most important part of creating a healthy relationship. A relationship without communication is like a beautiful flower without water and sunlight, it will quickly wither and die. I don’t care if you think what you have to say is hurtful or you are afraid of expressing yourself, speak your Truth. Be kind, but speak up and be honest. It’s easy to communicate when it’s good news and happy times, but it takes a truly authentic and courageous person to communicate openly and honestly when darkness falls on a relationship.”– Jackson Kiddard, author & polymath.

Love Mheyah 
Please connect with me at
www.connectionpointcentre.com
or by email at mheyah@gmail.com

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Are you there for me?


Bonus Tip of the Week-by Mheyah Bailey
Also published on MetroLiving Zine

The underlying question is: Are you there for me?

In a deeply committed love relationship, it helps you to see the best in your partner and to minimize their faults in your mind. It helps your bond to encourage them to be the best that they can be and to pursue their dreams and goals as individuals. Because you love your mate, it is important you become and remain their biggest cheerleader and fan, encouraging and supporting. It is important to show your love and appreciation in as many ways as you can. Sustaining a positive regard and respect for your partner is essential in maintaining a balanced perspective about your relationship.
When you disagree or are engaged in conflict, it is important to remain motivated to do everything that you can to settle your differences creating connection to restore harmony to your relationship.
Even when you are upset with your partner, it is essential you realize that your anger and feelings are your responsibility and your upset doesn’t mean that you don’t still love them. This will support you in knowing that your emotional upset is temporary; your love is deep-rooted, your attachment is secure and stable with a strong foundation of commitment, trust and respect.
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Dr. John Gottman says that it important to recognize the cues from your mate that are a bid for affection during a challenging time. Keeping your positive regard always in your mind will help you see when your partner is reaching out to you or you can come up with your own cue that both of you are aware of to remind each other you are on the same team, allied for your relationship no matter what.
It appears to me that the one question in most relationships is: Are you there for me?
Make a list of all the things you value, respect and admire in your loved one, so that in time of conflict and upset you will have the list to remind you.
Just in case you forget and keep a look out for those bids for connection. They can be subtle.

Love Mheyah ♥
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